Selasa, 19 November 2013

How to Socialize mistake in Adolescents


In every stage of life, one can not live alone, because humans are essentially social creatures. Adolescence to be the most vulnerable stage in the process of socializing. The unstable adolescent psychological cause is difficult to control the pressure from outside. Many things become a psychological burden of a teenager, especially those born and grew at this time where information and communication technology has advanced rapidly, such as adolescent peer pressure and negative effects of the rapid advancement of technology.
The influence of peers on an adolescent is very large, because the need for acceptance in the community is very important. It made teens tend to accept all his words and actions without thinking first. Tendency to form a community youth have positive and negative effects. The most positive thing visible from a community is a strong relationship between members. The relationship can also be a negative thing if it intersects with other communities. The most common example we see is a fight between students. Conflict between communities is not only common among young men, but young women, although usually not until a physical clash. Negative impact of community influence than physical clash is a relationship with the opposite sex. A teenager will be nervous if only he among communities that do not have a partner. Must have a pair like this would divert the concentration of what he should do, especially education. Pre-marital sex is a negative impact of peer influence is least expected.
Technology has made things easier, including in terms of communication. Currently, people in Indonesia can communicate with anyone, anywhere with ease. Facebook and some other virtual world sites to be the most common means for a person to socialize now. Teenagers today seem to be very dependent on all these sites and many of them are consumed time hence. The negative impact of social networking sites, in addition to time wasted, is a misuse of the site. Lately, there is trafficking crime, in this case young women, are revealed using Facebook site. There are many more cases of abuse of the other social networking sites and teens to be the most vulnerable victims. Relationship and communication with peers is one of the stages of growth and maturity that it must be lived by every teenager. Mistakes and errors that occur in the socializing is a natural thing, because people learn from both. Family into the controller and the controller for a teenager to be able to learn from his mistakes. When teens make mistakes, the family works to correct and advise him. All the psychological burden experienced by a teenager who could do no wrong push can be alleviated with the families that support them.
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